Seminary, FHE, Auckland, Lunches, Baptism, and Mother's Day

This turned out to be a busier week than originally planned. First of all, the second adult for Seminary was sick, so we went to early morning Seminary all week. After we were up, it was great! It is waking up at 5:00, that is the problem. LOL. Our two students in Hikurangi were awesome. They were very engaged all week. We had a lot of fun together.

After Seminary on Monday, I worked on the New Convert Initiative. We had a wonderful video call with Douhet's family. Audrey joined us from BYU Idaho so that was very nice. We talked to almost everyone. Kylee was busy preparing a birthday dinner for Tyus. Roman was napping so Tyus and Laila weren't there for the video call. Maybe next time. I'm sure Roman is growing like a weed! I can't wait to get home and hold him. Hopefully he won't be afraid of me. 😔

After lunch, Peggy came over and taught me how to make Pavlova.  It is such a yummy dessert. It turns out it is very easy to make and tastes so delicious. We enjoyed a nice time visiting while we made it.

We finished out the evening with a Family Home Evening with Ben and his mother, and Elders Olson and Na Nongkai. We had a very enjoyable time. The Elders gave a brief lesson on Family History and the Temple. We played a “getting to know you” game with some fun questions. We also ate our delicious Pavlova and just enjoyed visiting with each other.

Tuesday was a VERY long and busy day. After another great Seminary morning, we headed straight to Auckland for a housing meeting. We could have participated on Zoom, but I wanted to be there in person to better participate in the meeting. This first time with the new changes is still in the experimental and development stage. I’m sure we will undergo some tweaking. I wasn’t the only one with concerns. It was a good meeting and a good discussion.

We met some new seniors in the mission, One couple arrived the day before. I was able to take some time with them and show them the spreadsheets we use for doing inspections since they didn't have a clue about any of it. LOL. We visited with other friends and picked up a ton of stuff to take back up north. We also dropped off a couple of things from the north. I felt like the Pony Express. We then went out to lunch with the Garners and the Roses. Such fun!!! We have tried several times with the Garners, but it has never worked out. I'm so glad it worked this time. 

Elder Wilcox, Peti, and Rita

Our trip home was long and roundabout. We stopped at Wellsford to drop off a pathway laptop and pick up one that wasn't working very well. We also picked up a backpack for one of the Zone Leaders who left it behind from splits. Then we headed to Dargaville, which is on the far side of our Zone. We had several things to drop off to the new Senior Couple who replaced the Buchanans. It was the first time we met them, so we stayed for a while to get to know them and share a little about what the zone is like. Then we headed to Whangarei to drop off the backpack we picked up in Dargaville. And finally, we headed home. Got there about 7:00pm. The other things we had left, we were able to disperse at DCM or when the missionaries came to our house the next day.

Wednesday was another busy day. Seminary in the morning, then DCM. The Elders went to Seminary to help teach. We had left over Pavlova, so we took that to DCM. They LOVED it. We did some "finding" scenarios for our role play. That was fun. After DCM several missionaries wanted to go to a Thai restaurant for lunch and talked us into going. We ended up with 10 people. We had to sit at two different tables. So, we put the four Elders together and the four Sisters sat with us. 😇We had a very enjoyable time visiting. And the food was really good too.  

Grandma, Peti, and Mom

Once home, I worked on my Seminary lesson for Thursday and Elder Wilcox worked on the FHE lesson for that night with the Snow family. We also had our comp study with the Hika Elders. We talked about asking inspired questions. Our FHE went very well that night. 

The Thursday morning Seminary lesson went very well. We had seven students, and they were engaged and fun. We had a great discussion on how we can sustain our leaders. We had fun, learned some things, and enjoyed our time together. Elder Wilcox and I even got a few hugs after class! 

Next was our mission SPF meeting. Sister Allen focused on Mother's Day. She started by sharing a portion of a beautiful talk given by then Elder Holland about how a mother’s love for her child comes closed to the pure love of Jesus Christ. From there we heard from Sister Ward, who happens to be President Allen’s older sister, talk about their mother. We also heard from Elder Bowen, who happens to be Sister Allen’s older brother, talk about their mother. In addition to both of them, we heard from several Junior Missionaries talk about their mothers. All the talks were very touching.

The rest of the day was filled with the Sister Missionaries coming over for Mentoring, Lunch, and then Comp Study. We took care of a few things for the Bishop as well. Later, Elders Davis and Gardner came over to pick up a blanket that we brought back from Auckland for Elder Davies.

Friday was very laid back. No Seminary in the morning so that was nice to sleep in. Elder Wilcox did some repairs on two of the flats, while I worked on ACORD forms for HawkSoft. In the late afternoon, we had the Elders come over for Comp Study. We continued to read King Benjamins address that we started last week. There is a lot to discuss in that address. We will probably finish it up next week.

Saturday was also pretty laid back. I finished up the HawkSoft work from Friday. My phone has quit holding a charge for a full day. We actually brought an extra phone with us from America, so I spent much of the afternoon trying to get it all set up. It is older than my regular phone, so I wasn't sure if it would work with everything. We have been using it in our car since we have to have a phone plugged into the car to use the GPS. It has been working great. As it turns out, I can't use WiFi calling in Airplane mode on the extra phone. That means I can't receive my text messages or phone calls from home. NOT ACCEPTABLE! So, I will be changing my phone back and just plugging it in sometime during the day to get me through the day.

We went out with the Elders to try and teach a couple of lessons with them, but unfortunately people were not home.  It was a beautiful day that and I figured after all the rain we had had they decided to be outside for some fresh air. We will try again another day.

Later, we went to the baptism of one of our primary children. Peti’s birthday is the same day as Season’s. Her parents have been trying to put this together since her birthday, but life has been a bit crazy. We are so happy they were able to pull it together on Saturday. It was a very nice baptism.

Sunday was Mother’s Day. Because of all the different things going on over the last month or so, this had been the first time our Ward had met together since Easter. Since last week was Stake Conference, we didn’t have Fast Sunday, so that meant Fast Sunday was on Mother's Day. That meant we didn’t have a Mother’s Day program. However, we had a beautiful Testimony meeting with lots of beautiful testimonies given. It was especially nice to partake of the Sacrament again. It felt like it had been forever. 

After our Sacrament meeting, we went to Relief Society. We were just beginning our lesson, when Bishop popped in for a few minutes. After expressing his love and appreciation for us, he invited us into the Cultural for a Mother’s Day “Tea”. The Elders Quorum put together some light refreshments for us and they promised to do all the cleaning up too. Needless to say, we broke our fast and headed into the Cultural Hall. The Young Men and some Young Adult Men, as well as the Elders did the serving. They were so cute, explaining what they were serving the way they do is some of those cooking shows. They had quite a variety of treats from fruits, cheese, crackers, cakes, meet pies, scones, fluffy pancakes, and more. We did need to remind them we needed some plates and utensils. LOL It was lovely. After we ate and visited, our sweet Sister Darlene Whiongi-Henare, wife to the Bishop, sang a beautiful song to us called “An Angel to Watch Over Me.” By Sally DeFord. It was such a sweet day!

Darlene also put together a beautiful Mother’s Day display for our foyer and our Mother’s Day Tea. Not to mention the beautiful little handouts that were given to all the women when we arrived at Church. 

A HUGE Thank You to Darlene, the Bishop, the Elders’ Quorum, and all those who helped to make Mother's Day so special for each woman and mother at Church.

I hope you have a Marvelous Mother's Day too! 

All our Love,

Elder and Sister Wilcox

Missionary Meals, Early Morning Seminary, Stake Choir, and Stake Conference

Another very busy week. Monday started with Early Morning Seminary. The normal second adult was sick, so we stepped in to help. It does give us a good way to start the day. Monday was also the first p-day after transfers last Thursday. So, we had the North and Central Districts over for Breakfast. The Carlisles came to help too. It is a fun way to get to know our new missionaries. We have four this transfer, two in each district. We kept our four Sisters and replace one companion in each of the remaining four Elders companionships. It was a lot of fun. They all hung around until nearly 1:00, then headed out to do some other p-day activities. I'm so glad they feel comfortable at our flat. We love having them.

I spent the afternoon working on the New Convert Initiative as well as a couple of video calls with our daughters. We were scheduled with Sierra, but Sean called earlier to give us an assignment for Mother's day. It gave us an opportunity to visit with MyLiege since we didn't see her last week because she was so busy with Easter Dinner. We had good visits with both families. Sierra is currently looking for another job. She is hoping to get some medical insurance, and her current job can't offer that to her. 

Lastly, we had a Bishopric dinner at our house. We slow cooked a ham and made scalloped potatoes. Everyone else brought something to fill out the meal. We enjoyed good food and wonderful company. It is nice to get together once in a while in a non-business setting. We got to know each other better. 

After early morning Seminary on Tuesday, we picked up the Bream Bay Sister to take them shopping for some warm clothes for our new Sister there. She is from Pappa New Guinea, which is very warm. She has been very cold since she arrived in New Zealand. There is a member in the Denby Ward that operates a free secondhand clothing shop. We took the Sisters there first. Sister Kau found several items of warm clothing that will help a lot. She still needed some rain boots and a rain slicker, so we took her to The Warehouse. They have everything. She found just what she was looking for. 

On our way home, a rock hit our windshield and cracked it. So, we stopped at the windshield repair shop on the way home. We were able to take a picture and send it to the vehicle missionary in Auckland so he could file an incident report all the while they were fixing the window. By the time the window was fixed, the paperwork was completed, and we were able to leave. 

Still on our way home, we got a call from the Elders wanting to know if Elder Wilcox could go with them to a teaching appointment later in the day. So, Steve went to the appointment, and I worked on my Seminary lesson.

Wednesday went from early morning Seminary to DCM. Our Hika Elders taught the Seminary lesson that morning. Normally they will teach on Tuesday, but "someone" forgot to set an alarm. Lol It all worked out as Sister Paratene always prepares a lesson just in case. Hahaha DCM went very well. Elder Olson is our new District Leader. He ran a very good meeting. 

My Adorable Great
Granddaughter, "Ru"

After DCM, the Hika Elders came over for Comp Study. We also fed them lunch before having a great comp study. They were teaching a lesson later, so we talked about what they would teach. 

After dinner, we headed to the Stake Center for Stake Choir Practice. It was a short practice, because the Provo BYU Women's Soccer Team was presenting a devotional for the youth. Of course, it made me think and miss my two granddaughters who are attending BYU Provo. Neither one is on the soccer team. 😢As we were leaving, a couple who were travelling with the Soccer Team approached us and called us by name. They then told us that Elder Jackson Swenson is their grandson. He is serving here in the New Zealand Auckland Mission. They were able to meet him briefly. When he found out they were headed up North for a devotional he told them to look us up. Luckily, we happened to be at the Stake Center for Choir practice, or we wouldn’t have met them. We had a very pleasant, albeit brief visit with them before the devotional was going to start and we had to leave. It is a small world!

We didn't have to go to early morning Seminary on Thursday since I normally teach at the Stake Center. Sister Paratene had arranged for someone else. However, since the Stake Center was being professionally cleaned on Monday and Tuesday, they had to bump Seminary down a day. Monday is Zoom, so that one didn't count.) So, my lesson was on Friday. We actually got to sleep in a bit for the week. We had our Zoom SPF mission meeting, which was followed by all four Sisters showing up for their mentoring sessions. 

After the mentoring sessions, we all ate grilled ham and cheese sandwiches and then had a wonderful comp study with the Sisters. After lunch we had a nice discussion about sections 41 and 42 in the Doctrine and Covenants. It was mainly about what the Lord called His “law to govern [His] Church.” I love hearing their thoughts and feelings about different verses in the scriptures. We always have a great discussion. I have to mention here that Steve made a comment, and I challenged him. As it turned out HE WAS RIGHT! I told him I would put it in my journal that night...which I did!

The Hika Elders showed up just as we were finishing so that Elder Wilcox could join them on another teaching appointment. It went very well. I stayed home as one of the Sister Companionships had another conference call.

Then it was time for dinner and another trip to the Stake Center. Steve attended the Bishopric and Elders Quorum Presidency meeting with the Stake Presidency and High Council. They had a guest speak from Auckland in the Seminary and Institute program.  After he talked to them, he gathered the Seminary Teachers that were there into the High Council room so we could receive some training. I enjoyed that very much. He shared a lot of tips and tricks with us on how to get our students to be engaged.   

I taught my Seminary class Friday morning. I don't think everyone got the message that there would be class on Friday. I only had four students. It took a little while for them to warm up, before we moved into a fully engaged. It ended up being a pretty good class. 

After class, we took a road trip to all three flats that we inspect. It wasn't an inspection trip. We taped three laminated flyers on the fridge in each of our three flats. It makes for a very long drive, but for the most part the weather was very nice. We ran into a few sprinkles along the way, but it was mostly sunny and warm. We listed to an audio book about President Russell's life called Insight. We worked on our Mother's Day assignment from Sean after we got home.

Our Saturday morning and early afternoon were kind of a p-day for us. We spent that time relaxing and just enjoying being together without having any official work that needed to be done. By 2 it was time to get ready for the Stake Conference Leadership Session. We had a visiting Area Seventy, Faapito Auapaau for the conference. He is from Samoa and gave two great talks on Saturday. Steve got to read several scriptures during the Leadership session. The Stake Presidency calls him “The Voice”. They love having him read. 

After the Leadership session, we had our Stake Choir Practice for Sunday morning. I think we sounded pretty good. After practice, we headed back to our seats. President Reti gave Steve an “eye” and motioned for him to come up to the stand. Apparently, Elder Auapaau told President Reti he should find something else for Elder Wilcox to read for the evening session because he likes his voice too. President Reti introduced Elder Wilcox to him and Elder Auapaau gave him a hug. 

After the Adult session we had an occasion to visit with him again briefly. He mentioned again how much he likes Steve’s voice. He wanted him to read again so he could get a recording. I mentioned that our kids recorded Steve reading the Nativity scriptures one year after we had a medical scare and the kids realized they wouldn’t have Grandpa around forever. Elder Auapaau asked me to send him a copy. So, I sent him a link to our video.

Sunday started with Stake Choir practice before Stake Conference started. We did the prelude song before Conference started. I think it turned out very well. Then after they did the Stake Business, we sang This is the Christ. It sounded good, but I’m not sure we sounded as strong as we did in our practice the day before. We still got complements. 

We heard from several great speakers, including a young girl from primary, a young woman, and a young adult. Of course, we also heard from several adults, including a Senior Couple who recently returned from their mission, a couple from the Auckland Temple Presidency, and an immigrant from America who talked about how some severe trials in America paved the way for them to come to New Zealand. Of course, we also heard from Elder Auapaau from the Pacific Area Seventies. He focused on ways we can increase our Spiritual Momentum. 

After Stake Conference, Elders Davis and Gardner came over for lunch and comp study. We couldn’t seem to coordinate with them earlier in the week. I’m glad they didn’t give up. We had a great visit and lunch with them.

Have a Wonderful Week! May the Fourth Be With You!!!

All our Love,

Elder and Sister Wilcox

Auntie Sandra's Breakfast, Sickos, Transfers, Lots of Missionaries, and General Conference

Auntie Sandra always hosts a breakfast for all the missionaries in the Zone once a transfer. This transfer was Monday morning. We had almost all the missionaries there. Just before we were heading out, we got a call from the Sisters asking if we were going. I said we were and asked if someone needed a ride. As it turned out, Sister Smetaniuk wasn't feeling very well. We offered to stay home so they could drop her off at our house, but they said they were talking her into going. So, we went and had some breakfast and pictures before we transferred Sister Smetaniuk from their car to ours. We had her for much of the day. She stayed in the spare bedroom for the first couple of hours but came out for lunch. She was feeling better. We visited for a while before her mom called for their weekly call with family. She went back to the bedroom to talk with family. 

I spent much of the day working on emails to the Stake Clerks throughout the mission and sent them an email. We then had a nice video call with MyLiege's family. We didn't actually get to talk with MyLiege, as she was busy making Easter Dinner for dinner guests. So, while she slaved away in the kitchen, we talked with everyone else. Erik, Paul, and Carol came over. Djeryd, Eva, and Ruthie were there too. And to our surprise Sassie was there too. It was so fun to visit with everyone for a few minutes. Ruthie was the hit of the visit, and she stole my heart when she finally called me "GG" (for great grandma). It really made my day. She waved and smiled at us too.

Later that evening, we had a nice Family Home Evening with the Elders and Joe. Ben and his mom were supposed to come too, but I think they may have been sick. They missed Church on Sunday as well. We are hoping to make FHE a regular occurrence starting May 5th. 

I got my New Convert Initiative about 9:30 in the evening. So, I spent most of the day on Tuesday working on my report. We had a mission goal of forty something baptism for the transfer. We ended up with seventy-five. I've been busy with that report! Elder Wilcox went out with the Elders in the afternoon to go to a teaching appointment. He said it went very well. It was the second or third lesson they had. Around 8:45 that night we received the transfer news of who was leaving. It always makes me sad. 😢

I got up early on Wednesday to finish getting snacks ready for DCM. I knew it would be an emotional day because of transfers. Our meeting went well. After the meeting we joined the North District so we could all say our goodbyes. Bye-bye books were passed around. Snacks were enjoyed and hugs and tears were exchanged. We are losing a total of six from our Zone. Four of those are from the North and Central Districts. Elder Sanders went home from Wellsford. Elder Bird transferred from Dargaville. Elders Bradford and Dixon transferred from the North District and Elders Maraetefau and Hague transferred from the Central District. However, Elder Hague is moving to Wellsford, so he is still in our Zone. We won't see him very often, but we will see him at Zone Conference. That is really good news, because he only has this one transfer left before he goes home. That way we can say our goodbyes properly. Thankfully, we are not losing any of our Sisters!

Elder Maraetefau is leaving

In the afternoon, we met Elders Olson and Perry at a home in Hikurangi for a teaching appointment. Elders Maraetefau and Bradford were packing which is why we had Elder Perry. We had a wonderful lesson and played some games. They were teaching three young men. It was really fun. 

From there we headed to the Hikurangi Chapel so we could attend our Stake Choir practice. It was only supposed to be the Punaruku and Hikurangi Wards, but Sister Ah Mu did some recruiting from the other Wards. I think we had over five Wards in attendance and about 30 people. We sounded REALLY good. We are singing just two songs. One is I Know That My Savior Loves Me, and the other one is This is the Christ. I think it will turn out pretty good.

We thought we were going to go to transfers to pick up a couple of Elders that don't drive. However, we brought up the fact that we would also need to pick up the Punaruku car that would be at transfer with no driver. They put their heads together and came up with a solution that didn't involve us going to Auckland after all. We were a little disappointed. 

Since we didn't go to Auckland, we decided we could do our comp study after all. We invited the remaining three Elders who were in a threesome come over first. All three will have new companions by the afternoon. Elder Perry has given me a few items of clothing to repair on Wednesday. I was able to get two of them done before they arrived for comp study. 

We had a GREAT discussion. We discussed 3 Nephi 11 and 12. We had some interesting discussions about different verses. Chapter 12 is a parallel to Matthew 5 which is the Sermon on the Mount. We compared the two chapters and talked about what was different and why it mattered. I very much enjoyed it. After a while, they left to get some work done. 

About that time, the Sisters finished their mentoring calls. Elder Wilcox started on lunch. We had a nice enjoyable conversation over lunch. Sister Jones celebrated her 1-year anniversary. However, she wasn’t feeling very well and crashed on the couch. My back was to her, so I didn’t see her lay on the couch. Elder Wilcox saw her and went and got a blanket to cover her up. She promptly fell asleep. 

After we visited for a while, we thought we should do some comp study. By then, Sister Jones was awake and seemed to be doing a bit better. We studied Doctrine and Covenants 39 and 40. We had a great discussion about doing good and how many good people there are in the world. Sometimes we focus too much on the bad that goes on all over the world. There are wars, and gangs, and killings, and robberies, and just so much bad stuff. But in reality, there is a lot more good that goes on around the world. We just don’t tend to focus on that. It was a good eye-opening discussion. 

Sister Jones was still not feeling very well, so she stayed at our flat while the other three Sisters went out to work. She promptly went back to sleep on the couch. I took the time to do my scripture study and a little bit of work on HawkSoft. 

Later Elder Olson dropped by to introduce us to his new companion, Elder Na Nongkai. He is from Thailand. They serve in Hikurangi so we will see them the most. Since Sister Jones was asleep on the couch, we just visited with them at the door. Not long after that Elder Davis brought over his new companion. Elder Gardner is from Utah. Sister Jones was awake, so we let them in to visit briefly. It turns out Sister Jones and Elder Gardner know each other, so that was a nice visit. 

One of our visitors at Auntie Sandra's Breakfast

The Elders left for a dinner appointment and the Sisters showed up with party hats, noise makers, flowers, and donuts for Sister Jones. She was very happy. She was also feeling better and ready to go out. I believe they had a dinner appointment to get to. It was a fun day with missionaries coming and going all day long!

By Friday, Steve's cold was worse. He had been toying with it all week. He pretty much parked himself in the recliner and stayed there all day. He slept a lot and ate Chicken soup. 

I spent most of the day working on HawkSoft. I also coordinated a Bishopric dinner for next Monday evening. I also posted a Central and North District Breakfast for our first Monday after Transfers. 

Not much excitement on Saturday. We had planned on going to the Stake Center to watch General Conference there, but Steve was still under the weather. He was doing better, but we felt it was better to stay home one more day so he could really rest. We had to go on Sunday because we had Stake Choir practice after each session.

I was able to fix Elder Perry’s other shirt, as well as update the master spreadsheet of the New Convert Initiative from the Stake spreadsheets. I hoped there would have been a lot more updates, but at least there were some. 

We spent the rest of the day watching General Conference.

By Sunday, Steve was feeling so much better. I know everyone's prayers helped.

It was so nice to meet at the Stake Center for General Conference. We actually had really good attendance. The talks were great. I got so much more out of them this time around. I know I’ll get even more out of them once I start studying them in my Scripture Study each day. I love General Conference.

Elder Na Nongkai and Elder Olson

We packed a little lunch so we could eat between sessions. We had a quick Stake Choir practice for about 40 minutes so we could learn our second song. The last session as was good as the first session. We had a much longer Choir practice after that session to go over This is the Christ again. We have a nice sized choir. We will meet again on Wednesday for about 45 minutes and then again right before Stake Conference Sunday morning. I think we will do just fine. It feels good to sing in a Choir again. We managed to get all the missionaries to join the choir too.


After Choir was over, the Hika Elders followed us home so we could take them in our car. Elder Olson wanted us to go on a few visits with them to people in our neighborhood. We got to briefly talk to three different people. With one of them we were able to set up a Family Home Evening for Thursday afternoon. I’m glad to see our Elders working so hard. They are doing great work.

I hope you have a GREAT week!

All our Love,

Elder and Sister Wilcox

 

Marai, Canoeing, Cyclone, Temple, and Easter!

It has been a crazy week. We actually thought this week was going to be one that was a little more "low key". 🤣 I think that will happen sometime AFTER we are released. 

Monday was filled with the New Convert Initiative project for most of the day. We had our monthly video call with Season later in the day. I'm still adjusting to the 5 hour and 1 day difference instead of only 3 hours. I've got to call earlier in the future. LOL

We received a call from our Elder's Quorum President asking us if we would like to go as a group out to the Punaruku Marai to pay our respects to a relative of several of our members. A marae, malaʻe, meʻae or malae is a communal or sacred place that serves religious and social purposes in Polynesian societies. We see a lot of them in the Northland. They are not so prevalent in Auckland. We have been to the Punaruku Marai several times over the last year. We have had several baptisms in Punaruku, so we have come to know many of the members there. We thought we probably knew Uncle Hone, so we wanted to pay our respects too. 

The deceased member typically lies in state for up to three days. The family will lay out mattresses on the floor and stay there with their loved ones. They pick up most of the mattresses during the day so people can come and pay their respects to the family. Typically, this involves each person going up to the deceased and either kissing the forehead or doing a Hongi. A Hongi is a traditional Māori greeting by pressing one's nose and forehead at the same time to another person. 

There is usually a lot of singing and people can get up and talk about the deceased. Many times, this is in Māori. Even though we may not understand what is being said, we can still feel a very strong spirit of love. I particularly love the singing that is done after each person talks. Our Bishop spoke briefly and the Hikurangi group stood and sang Love at Home. After several people spoke and the songs were done, we had a short religious ceremony. The Bishop spoke again, but this time in English. After he spoke, the Punaruku Bishop spoke also in English. We started with an opening song and prayer and ended it with a closing song and prayer. Then it was time to go get Kai (food). They served dinner. It was already after 7:30, so we opted to just go home.

Tuesday was a Senior Activity P-day. We had been planning this for a couple of months. The Michaelsons arranged the activity. We heard we were heading into bad weather and checked to make sure we were still on. We got the go ahead. A sister in their Ward teaches and trains competition teams in canoeing. Her team just took first place in the Nationals competition in January. One of the members of that winning team was our navigator. She is only 10 years old and has been canoeing since she was only 5. Thankfully, we pretty much knew what we were doing because of all our canoeing trips to Sparks Lake. 🛶 We did have to learn how to stay in sync with everyone, but that wasn't too hard. Hahaha We all had fun, and no one fell overboard. LOL After we canoed, we all went to lunch together. I love getting together with our other Senior Missionaries. We always have so much fun.

Wednesday started as a normal Wednesday with DCM and a comp study scheduled with the Elders. The bad weather that was predicted hit in full force on Wednesday. It was actually Cyclone Tam. Wednesday and Thursday were the worst days. We fared fairly well.

We picked up the Carlisles at the tire shop where they had dropped their car for repairs. Because of the big storm we originally thought one of the DLs would not be able to make it to town, so we were going to hold DCM combined with the North District. Needless to say, we had plenty of snacks, AND they all ate almost everything. Hahaha As it turned out the DL and his companion spent the night at the Zone Leader's flat, so he made it to DCM after. We still met together. I'm not sure if ALL the Elders spent that first night at the ZL's flat or if that only occurred Wednesday and Thursday nights. But somehow, because they were all together, we ended up having all the Elders over for comp study right after DCM. We had one set of Sisters scheduled for a mentoring session at the same time, so they took a back bedroom. We promised to kick the Elders out before we had our comp study with them. The other set of Sisters showed up early so they sat in with the Elders. Somehow, we ended up with ALL the missionaries from both the Central and North Districts for lunch and comp study. It was a lot of fun, and we had a great discussion about Easter and how we have seen the love of our Savior in our own lives. I loved hearing a story from each of our missionaries.

After we kicked the Elders out, the Sister pounced on us for help with pranking the Elders who had been pranking them. This had been going on for several weeks, and I was afraid things may start to get out of hand as they tried to outdo each other. We discussed different options; I tried to steer them in a more innocent direction. They decided on a fairly innocent prank. We finally jumped into a brief comp study about Easter. They wanted to study the Wednesday in the Book of Mormon Easter Week Plan. It was all about Teachings about the Higher Law. There were three statements that jumped out at all of us:

The Savior made this clear in His sermons to followers in both hemispheres. “Blessed are the peacemakers,” He said [Matthew 5:9]. …

The Savior’s message is clear: His true disciples build, lift, encourage, persuade, and inspire—no matter how difficult the situation. True disciples of Jesus Christ are peacemakers. …

… How we treat each other really matters! How we speak to and about others at home, at church, at work, and online really matters. Today, I am asking us to interact with others in a higher, holier way. (“Peacemakers Needed,” Liahona, May 2023, 98–99)

After our comp study, they all agreed to live the higher and holier way and be a peacemaker. Instead of seeking any kind of revenge and one upping the Elder’s prank, they decided to do something nice. They bought some Ice Cream and wrote a nice note. Elder Wilcox and I met them at the Elder’s flat, (thankfully they weren’t home) and let them in. One of the Sisters has a polaroid camera. I took a couple of pictures of them in the flat, holding a guitar that belonged to one of the Elders. They put the picture and the note on the guitar so the Elders would see it. The note said, Blessed are the Peacemakers and then told them to look in the freezer where they put the ice cream. I was very pleased with their change of mind and happy to help them pull off this very NICE prank for the Elders. 

On Thursday, we heard about some difficulties that occurred because of the Cyclone. We have experienced very strong winds and some heavy rains. Power has been out in various places and some damage has been done to some houses. We were lucky enough to NOT lose power. 

About one AM Wednesday (Thursday morning) night, we woke up with a big thump that sounded like something hit the side of the house. The wind was really strong, so that is what we figured happened. When I got up in the morning, I looked out the windows and didn’t see any damage. I didn’t see any leaves on our fig tree, and I wondered if it lost a branch too. As I headed to the closet to get dressed, I found the THUMP. The closet rack that held some of my clothes fell off the wall in the middle of the night. This is the second time this has happened. When it was originally hung, it was not connected to any studs in the wall. Steve thought he fixed it last time, but it still wasn’t connected to the way he wanted it. So, this morning he fixed it really good, so it won’t fall down again.

We had a very nice SPF meeting. Sister Allen gave a beautiful presentation on Easter week. After that, I finished up the last ACORD form for HawkSoft. It wasn’t long before the Denby Sisters showed up for their Mentoring meeting. Since it was nearly noon, Elder Wilcox made them lunch again. LOL 

After they left, we finished getting ready to head to Auckland to go to the Temple. Our appointment wasn’t until 7:30. It was the earliest time I could get for this week. We needed to go to Costco, so we headed out. Why can’t we ever get out of Costco for less than a couple of hundred dollars. Hahaha The weather wasn’t too bad as we drove further south. The storm was much worse in the Northland. It was still very windy and rainy, but we didn’t run into any problems. The Temple was very nice. We arrived home around 11:30 Thursday night.

At our Zone Conference last week, President and Sister Allen gave the missionaries a challenge to memorize a paragraph from Preach My Gospel about the Atonement of Jesus Christ. For every Zone that memorized it, they would hold a Family Home Evening in person. Of course, our AWESOME Whangarei Zone all memorized it. (Thankfully the Seniors were not included in those numbers.) Our FHE was to be Friday afternoon at 1:30. On Wednesday, Sister Allen had asked Sister Carlisle and I if we knew where to get Cheesecake for dessert. Elder Carlisle found a place called The Cheesecake Shop. I also mentioned that Elder Wilcox and I would be going to Costco on Thursday and perhaps we could pick some up there. She opted for Costco. However, Costco only had small, round, mango-topped cheesecake. We chatted with
Sister Allen, and she opted to try The Cheesecake Shop. 

So, Friday morning we headed to The Cheesecake Shop. I was expecting to find a large round plain cheesecake that we could then offer various toppings the missionaries could put on. NOT an option here. The Cheesecake Shop only had small, round cheesecakes too. However, they did have a bigger variety of toppings. No plain ones. So, we opted for a caramel topped one and a strawberry topped one. Everyone loved them. 

We got word that FHE was going to be delayed for an hour because of traffic from Auckland to Whangarei. I felt prompted to check in on Peggy who had skylight blown away by the cyclone so that rain was pouring into her bathroom. Her husband was out of town until either later that night or the next day. She had put a big tarp down and a bunch of bowls on top of the tarp to collect the rainwater. She just monitored that to keep them emptied. She said she thought about rigging the tarp up to drain into the bathtub but then thought better of it. I told her it wasn't such a bad idea and that perhaps Elder Wilcox could rig something up for her. We went over to take a look. 

We all talked about the problem and looked around for possible solutions. Elder Wilcox spotted some scrap wood that was leaning against the side of the house. He asked if he could use it to cover the hole. Peggy said yes, so we cleaned up the ladder and set it up in the bathroom. Elder Wilcox put the boards across the hole and screwed them together after he overlapped them a bit. He then attached a heavy twine to the boards and tied it to a hook next to the shower to hopefully keep the boards from blowing off. If we didn’t get heavy winds she would be just fine. Just as he was screwing the last board in place it started raining again. Perfect timing. 

Not long after that we headed back to the Stake Center for a wonderful hour and a half with President and Sister Allen and our entire Zone. We don’t get together with the entire Zone very often. We played Jeopardy, talked a lot, received messages from President and Sister Allen and enjoyed our delicious cheesecakes. Fun was had by all.

On Saturday we headed to the Stake Center for two baptisms. A young brother and sister from Denby were getting baptized. It turns out their Uncle is a member of our Ward, so it was fun to see him when we walked in. We try and support our missionaries when they have baptisms. I ended up leading the music. Several other missionaries took part in the program. 

The Elders had two Temple pictures for them. One was a pink background and the other blue. They let the little sister choose first and she picked the blue picture. Her brother wasn’t particularly happy about that. After we took several pictures, I told the little boy if he really wanted a blue picture, I had one in the car. He was very happy about that and gladly traded me the pink one. 

We framed up a picture of Jesus Christ to give to Ben. We had given one to Joe a couple of weeks ago, but we had to order more pictures before we could give one to Ben. We dropped it off on Sunday and he loved it. I finalized the Easter Sacrament Program. I also checked on Peggy and she said everything was dry. A builder came out to assess the damage. It turns out it was not as bad as she thought. Her husband arrived home so all is good. They dropped off a delicious Pavlova dessert. I love that dessert so much. She is going to teach me how to make it.

When I walked into the Chapel on Sunday morning, I was so blessed to see a BEAUTIFUL display of the Garden Tomb made by our beloved Darlene Wihongi-Henare, the Bishop’s wife. It really set the tone for the day.

Our Easter program was OK. We struggled with a few of the songs as they are from the new hymnbook, and we didn’t get them all practiced before Sunday. Overall, I think it turned out to be pretty good. I recommended to the Bishop that in the future, they start planning the Christmas and Easter programs two months in advance if they want special musical numbers. We planned several small groups, but they fell through at the last minute, so all the songs became congregational hymns. And as a congregation, we didn’t know the songs very well. 

On the way home, we dropped off two Priesthood Ordination certificates. The first one went to Joe. He left right after Church, so we missed giving it to him. We didn’t see Ben, so we dropped his Ordination certificate and the picture of Jesus Christ at his house. He was happy to get them both. We are planning on a Family Home Evening at our house with Joe, Ben, and the Missionaries tomorrow night. I hope the Missionaries can extend the invitations on Sunday.

Elder Wilcox met up with Missionaries in the afternoon to teach a referral lesson. I hope it went well.

I hope everyone enjoys this most special day. Without Easter, there would be no Christmas. This is the GREATEST day in the history of the world. It gives meaning to life. Without it, we are lost forever. Because of Easter, we can have Eternal Life!!!

All our Love,

Elder and Sister Wilcox

Early Morning Seminary, General Conference, Zone Conference, and Funeral

What a week! This was our last week of Seminary before a two-week break between terms. Somehow, we ended up attending in-person for three of our four days! On Monday, we went to the Stake Center for early morning Seminary. Normally that class in on Zoom, but with this the last week before the break, one of the Bishops wanted to prepare breakfast for all the kids. I think because he was the Bishop of the Monday Seminary teacher, we had breakfast on Monday. We were asked to be her second adult and to help out with the Zoom portion of her lesson, since she has three students from Bream Bay. She normally only has about six kids on Zoom. She had thirteen show up in-person! It was a good experience for all. I'm sure breakfast helped some of the kids decide to show up. Hahaha

I spent the rest of the day involved with the New Convert Initiative report, the Area Call associated with the New Convert Initiative, and watching some General Conference. With the time difference between New Zealand and the United States, we don't usually watch it live. We had originally planned on watching the last Sunday Session live on Monday morning, but then we had to attend Seminary at the same time. So, we watched all of conference on YouTube. We watched the Saturday morning opening session of conference on Sunday afternoon. On Monday, we watched the second session. 

On Tuesday morning, we were at the Hikurangi Chapel for early morning Seminary because the Elders were teaching, and they needed a male second adult. As it turned out, one of the fathers came and stayed, but of course we didn't know that was going to happen. We had a good lesson, and I know how helpful it is to the Elders to have several more people in class. 

Elder Wilcox and Elder Dixon

I worked on some more New Convert Initiative stuff, some HawkSoft work, and we were able to watch two sessions of General Conference. Later, we made some snacks for Wednesday's DCM meeting. Steve made a fruit salad, and I made some banana bread. 

During the day, we received some hard news. The first news was that our beloved friend, Sabrina Batista had passed away. She was one of our Portuguese Interpreters in Salt Lake City on our last mission and we grew to love her so much. We had hoped to see her when we got home from our New Zealand mission, but we will have to wait now until it is our time to pass over. 

Devyn

Then, a couple of hours later, we learned that another beloved friend here in New Zealand passed away suddenly. Kalani Wihongi is one of the sweetest men I know. His poor wife was visiting their daughters in Hamilton when he passed away at home in Tikipunga. It was a sad day. 

Wednesday was a very full day. Thankfully, we didn't have to get up extra early for Seminary! But we were up and ready for DCM. Our fruit salad and banana bread were a hit. We had the APs join us. They stopped by our house the night before to pick something up for Zone Conference and smelled the banana bread. When I told them it was our DCM meeting, they said they would be there! Hahaha

Lily May

Elder Wilcox left DCM as soon as it was over so he could go all the way to Punaruku to meet the glass repair man. We had to have the sliding glass door replaced after one of the Elders bumped it with his bag a few weeks ago. I had the Carlisles take me home so I could spend the day working on my Seminary lesson for Thursday. By the time he got home, I was done with the lesson, and we were able to watch the last session of General Conference. When that was over, we headed to the Hikurangi Chapel for song practice for our Easter Sacrament program and then to help with the Young Women's activity. They were making white handkerchiefs for the Auckland Temple Dedication. Several Relief Society sisters joined as well. 

Sister and President Allen

Thursday morning started with early morning Seminary at the Whangarei Stake Center. We didn't have breakfast, but I did take some mini candy bars for them. 🍫We had eleven students show up. The whole week was focused on sections in the Doctrine and Covenants that called several brethren to missionary work. Section 30 through 36. On Tuesday, the Elders taught the lesson entitled Choosing to Serve a Mission. They were perfect for that. They taught our Hikurangi students. I taught the lesson entitled Diligence in Missionary Work, to the rest of the Stake Seminary. I asked our Zone if any of the missionaries had an experience where they showed diligence that resulted in a baptism. Elder Hague said he had one and was willing to come and share it. I started the lesson with a story call Fourth Floor, Last Door. In this story, the missionaries were discouraged because no one was willing to talk to them. They knocked on every single door of the entire four-story complex. They wanted to leave after the first floor, but they continued. They continued to the last door on the fourth floor. Finally, a young girl opened the door and convinced her mother to let them share their message. They gave her a copy of the Book of Mormon. Several weeks later the small family of a mother and two daughters were baptized. One of those daughters eventually married Dieter F. Uchtdorf. Elder Uchtdorf was grateful those missionaries pursued with diligence, instead of giving up.

I focused my lesson on everyone being diligent in missionary work, not just full-time missionaries. I wanted them to recognize we are all missionaries. We are to Love, Share, and Invite. Missionary work is not just "door knocking". We are missionaries when we are examples of what we believe, like doing good and serving other. We can share by simply telling our friends what we did at a youth activity or what we may have learned in Sunday School or Seminary about the love of Jesus Christ for us. We can invite them to our activities, to hear us talk in Sacrament meeting, to the Temple Open House. or to our Easter Sacrament meeting. 

When we got near the end of our lesson, I invited Elder Hague up to share his story.  Elder Hague shared an experience he had where he showed diligence in serving when he was discouraged and sick. After they had prayed, he and his companion decided to continue with the appointment they had scheduled, even though they thought it wouldn’t amount to anything. Long story short, the man agreed to be taught and after a few weeks joined the Church. It was a perfect ending to our lesson and the students enjoyed it.

After we got home, the Bishop showed up with some problems he wanted help with. We ended up calling Global Services. We were told we would have to send the problems to the Salt Lake City Finance department to get fixed. Some of these problems were three years old, before he was even the Bishop. After he left, Steve ran some errands, including picking up the Bishop's trailer. We needed to take some bikes to Auckland for Zone Conference and to pick up some mattresses that we had to take back up north. I did some work on HawkSoft while he was gone.

We hit the road on Friday morning before the sun was up. It wasn't completely dark, but it definitely wasn't light either. We didn’t even get to enjoy a beautiful sunrise, because it was raining. 🌧️ The Hikurangi Elders arrived at our house a little after 6:30am. We had to be in Auckland before 9:00. We had assignments to help with before Conference started. I worked in the kitchen and Elder Wilcox worked with the bikes and mattresses. I think he also helped set up tables and chairs and whatever anyone else asked him to do.

We were able to join Zone Conference a little after 10. We heard the last of the Testimonies of the missionaries who are leaving. Then we went into the Easter Devotional portion of the meetings. There were five musical numbers from the different Zones that were there. Each musical number had someone announce the song. Part of that announcement was they gave a beautiful testimony/talk about the song and what it meant to them. They were all very touching. Then those participating in the number got up and performed. The first song was a powerful of There is Peace in Christ. Sister Tayler was our soloist. She has an absolutely beautiful voice. Her pianist was Sister Fale, who used to be in our district. She plays wonderfully. I really loved that number. 

The next song was I stand All Amazed by the Whangarei North and South Districts. Somehow Elder Dixon roped us into it even though we are in the Central District. Elder Dixon played his guitar, and we had about a dozen or more missionaries sing, including three Senior Couples. I think it turned out really good. 

Our third song was a solo by Elder Fa’Aoso and a violin by Sister Foote. It was a beautiful arrangement I had never heard before of There Is a Green Hill Far Away. The violin added so much. I was very moved. 

Our fourth song was by our Whangarei Central District. We had two guitarists, Elder Hague and Elder Maraetefau. We sang I know That My Redeemer Lives. The Sisters started, then the Elders, when we all sang together. It turned out pretty good too. 

The last song was done by the Office Elders, Aps, and Media Specialist Sisters. They sang one of my favorite songs called, Bethlehem.   It was also so beautiful. The whole program took by breath away. The Spirit was so strong. 

President and Sister Allen spoke to us about Easter. I missed part of President Allen's talk because I had to go help in the kitchen again to get ready for lunch. 

Lunch was delicious. Have the group got flu shots while the other half started on lunch. Then the second half got their flu shots. After lunch we took group pictures. My phone was in another room, so I didn’t get any pictures. I’ll have to pull them off of the shared drive once they get posted. 

Saying Goodbye to Elders Sanders

Then it was time for GAMES! Such fun times. Sister Warword organized so very fun games starting with an Easter Egg Hunt. In some of the eggs there was a puzzle piece. They had to put the puzzle together. Not all the eggs were found so we had a few pieces missing. The first team to guess the picture before it was completed got a prize. We had several other games around the Cultural Hall. Sister Nash and I worked on the Red Solo Cup and ball game. Let’s just say, the missionaries laughed a lot and had fun. I don’t know what all the other games were like. 

We ended by singing God Be With You ‘Till We Meet Again in Māori. It is ALWAYS beautiful and makes me cry. We all said our goodbyes to those missionaries who are leaving. I gave special hugs to Elder Sanders and Sister Foote. I hugged them all, but I know those two better. Everyone had a hard time leaving because it is so fun to visit with everyone. 

We received some GREAT news. Our Denby e-bike Sisters NOW have a CAR!!!! YAY!!!! I have been so worried about them on their e-bikes with bad brakes, and in the rain. I’m so happy they have a car now.

Saturday was a day of service and lots of driving. We started by dropping the twin sized mattress off at the Elders' flat in Kaikohe. I think they now have three Elders in the flat. From there we headed about a half hour away to Chapel in Awarua for the funeral of a dear friend who passed away suddenly this past week. It was a smaller Chapel that he attended as a young boy. He grew up there, served his first Sacrament there, and left on his mission from there. His family was in the process of moving back to the family homestead. They had been working on the property for several months to get it ready to move in. They were just about ready. The Chapel was filled to overflowing with so many friends and family. It was a beautiful and heart-felt service. 

After the funeral, we headed to Dargaville over an hour away to drop off a queen-sized mattress at Elder and Sister Buchannan’s flat. They will be leaving soon, but they are expecting another Missionary Couple to move into their flat before they leave. They needed a bed for their spare bedroom. We borrowed Elder Carlisle’s portable drill so we could put the base of the bed together. When we dropped the bed off, the Buchanan’s thanked us and said they could put it together. We mentioned we had the portable drill and talked them into letting us help. With all of us helping, we had the whole thing together in less than 30 minutes. Sister Buchanan said it would have taken them until Monday to have done it with their hand tools. I’m so glad Elder Wilcox thought to ask Elder Carlisle to borrow the drill. What a life saver. 

Sunday was a very special day. For a great many people, it was a once in a lifetime occasion. We were able to gather at the Whangarei Stake Center, present our Temple Recommend, and attend the Auckland New Zealand Temple Dedication with Elder Patrick Kearon. 

Steve and I had a flood of memories come back to us that nearly overwhelmed me. I’m not sure how many Temple Dedications we participated in while we were serving in Global Interpretation. We thought of the wonderful people we worked with and the hundreds of dedicated interpreters who do so much and rarely ever get any acknowledgement. I reached out to Curtis and Eunlan to see which one might be working the dedication. Curtis replied back, saying he was assigned, but all the interpreters were either on Tieline, or onsite. They sent him home.😢I told him we were thinking of him anyway. 

We were there an hour early so we could sit in the Chapel. It was a good thing we went that early, because it was almost full when we got there. By 9:30 the overflow was full, and they had locked the doors. They HAD to be in the Stake Center by 9:30. They held a rebroadcast session at 2:00 so hopefully no one would miss out. 

The choir of 12 did a beautiful job. I loved all of their songs. The speakers were great, and of course, listening to Elder Kearon was a great blessing. It was overwhelming to stand and give the Hosanna Shout with so many Saints and then sing The Spirit of God. I have to admit it was a much more emotional experience for me than most of the ones we watched in Salt Lake. I think it is because this is our Temple and not just a Temple. This is actually the first Temple that (at least for our time here) is our Temple that we’ve been able to participate in. We missed the Portland Temple Dedication by two weeks. We were in the process of moving to Oregon when the Temple was dedicated. 

It made me think about my Sunday School lesson last week. We talked a bit about where Zion is. The early Saints were told to build Zion and, like many of us think, they thought it was a specific place. We have learned that Zion is the Pure in Heart. There are hundreds and thousands of Zions around the world as we gather to our Stake Centers, commonly referred to as the Stakes of Zion. In the course of that lesson, I said, “Right now my Zion is right here with each and every one of you.” I remember having a overwhelming feeling come over me as I knew how true that is. Right now, on this mission, my home, my Zion is here. When our mission ends and we go home, we will return to that Zion home. Zion is wherever the Saints are gathered together. 

I pray we will all be together in Zion someday!!!

All our Love and Prayers,

Elder and Sister Wilcox